Thinking Positive

“It’s never crowded along the extra mile”. Author Unknown.

Who knew?

I received this saying in a fortune cookie the other night, and I can’t think of a better way to begin my post about Positivity. Whether you’re hoping to bring joy to someone experiencing sorrow, or a smile to a person who is angry, how else do you go about achieving your goal, but to walk the extra mile?

Case in point and personal: My best friend’s birthday was today, and I forgot. Joe’s medical issues have scrambled what’s left of my brain, but still no excuse. So, when I did remember, I called her up and invited her out to her favorite restaurant tonight. Her kids are away at a bachelor party in Vegas (3 boys), and only one other friend stepped up to the plate, regarding my bestie’s evening.

What I did wrong, besides forgetting: I got a tad offended because she didn’t readily agree to join me for dinner. I apologized for being a nasty old ~ see photo ~ and then received a text saying she was down in the dumps and, didn’t want to do anything at all.

I should have run the extra mile for her, not walked it. So I’ve come to this conclusion: Sometimes it’s difficult to know what to say to someone who’s suffering with their own demons, but I think it’s best to leave that person alone for a while to reboot. Then, perhaps touch base later, and ask, “How are you NOW?”

What I did right: Attitudes are fickle whether they’re nice ones or troubled. My bestie’s problems were all too familiar to me, before I married Joe. She’s single, looking for love, and hasn’t found the right guy yet. She wants to play for her birthday, with her single friend, and I don’t blame her for not wanting to frolic with a married woman.

Thank God she had time to reboot and rethink her options. I just want her to be happy with her choices. What I’ve learned: Leave your own emotions out of the equation – only then will you be traveling the extra mile, where Positivity reigns.

Oh, wait, I almost forgot! Tonight my hub and I experience a ‘friendly’ rivalry regarding the NY Giants versus the NY Jets preseason football game. This particular eve either leaves us wildly making love, or having an impersonal duel.

Let’s Go Giants!

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Stay tuned and see you next time!

 


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Susan Jean Ricci

About Susan Jean Ricci

A late bloomer to the writing life, Susan Jean Ricci's been mighty busy the past six years. The award-winning, internationally read, From Women's Pens author and humorist, Susan's best known for her series of works titled Cindy's Crusades that includes two novels, Dinosaurs and Cherry Stems and The Sugar Ticket, the short chronicle Twilight and Chickadees, and a collection of short stories titled Heart Marks the Spot. Susan's novel Dinosaurs and Cherry Stems is a Multi Award winner. Its Sequel The Sugar Ticket placed first for Outstanding Women's Fiction category in the IAN 2016. The sassy My Sexy Chef won a second place award in the novella category via the Global Ebook Awards 2016, and has inspired the hot sequel Chaos in the Kitchen. Susan also specializes in short stories and novellas. Included are Christmas shorts, but she favors the romantic or humorous side of the equation, and that's what you'll find about her writing the most.

2 Replies to “Thinking Positive”

  1. I’m sure your friend loves you dearly, Susan. What you also do very well: be real, be kind, be brave about saying sorry if you think you’ve screwed up. Thanks for such a positive post. It’s a good reminder. 🙂

  2. Sometimes it’s tough to know just what to do. Just letting those we care about know we’re available and we care may help more than we know. You’re a good friend, Susan. Hope you and Joe enjoy your football rivalry tonight. Whichever way it goes, you’ll both win.

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